Dear Tatler,

I know you’re as excited as anyone that the President has finally quit smoking. I know firsthand just how hard quitting can be and what a good example it sets. But in your excitement, sir, I think you missed the meat of the story. Read what First Lady Michelle Obama said about how she didn’t pester her husband: “When somebody’s doing the right thing, I don’t mess with them.”

It’s the rest of us who’ve got to mind our P’s and Q’s to avoid Michelle’s persistent do-gooderism.