Single Men in Never-Neverland?

My a href=”http://www.pjmedia.com/2008/02/ask_dr_helen_8.php”PJM column is up:/abr /br /blockquoteWhy do today’s men run from commitment – indefinitely delaying settling down in a marriage they take seriously, and having kids? Dr. Helen Smith asks whether they are indeed pampered eternal adolescents more interested in exploding toilets and video games than real life, or if they are simply making a logical choice when “the reward for being an adult in our society is so low, especially for men.” /blockquotebr /br /Do you think today’s single young man is a a href=”http://www.city-journal.org/2008/18_1_single_young_men.html”“child-man in the promised land,” /aas proposed by Kay Hymowitz, author of a href=”http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1566637090?ie=UTF8tag=wwwviolentkicomlinkCode=as2camp=1789creative=9325creativeASIN=1566637090″emMarriage and Caste in America/em/aimg src=”http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wwwviolentkicoml=as2o=1a=1566637090″ width=”1″ height=”1″ border=”0″ alt=”” style=”border:none !important; margin:0px !important;” / or a rational adult who is turning to video games and alternative lifestyles because those are more rewarding activities? br /br /a href=”http://www.pjmedia.com/2008/02/ask_dr_helen_8.php”Go read the column /aand let me know what you think.