Christian Mom and Singer Kellie Haddock Pays It Forward in Iraq

In December 2014, singer/songwriter Kellie Haddock completed a mission of gratitude. In November 2015, she set out on another mission -- to bring music to aid workers in Iraq.

In 2004, Haddock, her husband and 14-week-old son were in a terrible car accident that left her a widow and severely injured her child. Doctors at Arnold Palmer Hospital in Orlando, Florida, warned Haddock that the boy would be severely disabled.

But through the actions of first responders and medical personnel, Eli survived and has grown into a healthy child. Now remarried -- her new husband adopted Eli -- Haddock partnered with Orlando-based production company Strongfilms to produce "The Thank You Project."

The final product recounts her trip to meet and then gather together all the people that helped her and Eli, and bring them together to meet each other and the boy.

Speaking to The Huffington Post, Haddock said:

“There is so much wrong in the world and it’s so easy to point out what people are doing wrong. We rarely take the time to notice when people are doing things right," she wrote. "I want to be a person that points out when someone does something right. How much better would the world be if we all spent more time focusing on what’s right instead of what’s wrong?"

Have a look:

One thing that sustained Haddock through her ordeal was her Christian faith. In late 2007, she closed down a blog of her experiences with a post near the third anniversary of the accident.

She wrote:

Each time I reach out even if it is out of despair, He is right there turning His eyes upon me to heal me with His gaze and to comfort me with His words. He has continued to show me that He is honored by my continuing to come and reaching out with whatever little faith I have left that remains. And in the reaching out He always gives me enough to continue on. The miracle and the sustenance is not found in my weak offering but rather in His huge compassionate outpouring and response.

Christ has continued to pour out His power over me and to carry me throughout this journey just as much if not more so now as in the days when these wounds were fresh and oozing. I sit here today typing this and realizing that I have grown so much in the last 3 years. I am far from being the same woman I was 3 years ago. But I am also far from being the woman that I thought I would be and was becoming.

I see the severe mercy of God in how He has been more concerned with my character than my comfort.

Whatever God intended, Haddock's character has remained strong. As recorded on her Facebook page, in November, Haddock headed to Iraq to play a concert for Americans living and working there to help refugees from ISIS violence, including persecuted Christians and Yazidis.

During her time there, Haddock stayed with friend Jeremy Courtney, who penned a Nov. 17 article about his experience, called "The world is scary as hell. Love anyway."

He wrote:

I have a confession: I’m afraid.

I live in Iraq with my family working at the headwaters of the Syrian and Iraqi refugee crisis, moving among Sunni jihadist sniper fire, suicide bombers, sleeper cells and Iranian-backed militia. I’ve received death threats, had mobs incited against me, and had friends kidnapped and killed by Sunnis and Shia, Arabs and Kurds. And I’m afraid.

Even on the ground here in Iraq, I hear the zero-sum conversation in the U.S. right now: “Be wise, close the borders, protect our own” on the one hand, or “be loving, welcome refugees, stop being afraid” on the other. If you’re not afraid, you’re either braver than me or significantly less informed.


“Hell on Earth” is often how people displaced by the Islamic State, militia and dictatorial regimes describe their existence. Hell on Earth is what the carnage looked like after terrorist attacks in Paris, Beirut, Baghdad, Ankara and on 9/11 as well.

It is not right or reasonable to tell anyone, “Do not be afraid.” Terrorism is terrifying. But we should aim to not be ruled by fear. In the face of ISIS, Iran and countless other nemesis neighbors, we commit to love anyway.