a href=”http://rightwingnews.com/mt331/2009/05/an_interview_with_relationship.php”John Hawkins interviews/a relationship expert Shaunti Feldhahn, author of a href=”http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1590525728?ie=UTF8tag=wwwviolentkicomlinkCode=as2camp=1789creative=9325creativeASIN=1590525728″span style=”font-style:italic;”For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women/span/aimg src=”http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wwwviolentkicoml=as2o=1a=1590525728″ width=”1″ height=”1″ border=”0″ alt=”” style=”border:none !important; margin:0px !important;” / and a href=”http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1590523172?ie=UTF8tag=wwwviolentkicomlinkCode=as2camp=1789creative=9325creativeASIN=1590523172″span style=”font-style:italic;”span style=”font-style:italic;”For Women Only: What You Need to Know about the Inner Lives of Men./span/span/aimg src=”http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wwwviolentkicoml=as2o=1a=1590523172″ width=”1″ height=”1″ border=”0″ alt=”” style=”border:none !important; margin:0px !important;” / A highlight:br /br /blockquoteNow let me reverse that. Same question: what do you think the biggest misperception that many women have about men and dating is?br /br /I think honestly there is a dangerous assumption that a lot of women have — and we would never usually say it out loud, but it’s in there. It’s this idea that we women think we’re really the ones who are good at relationships. We women kind of think we’re really the ones with the interpersonal skills. We honestly think when we see something that we don’t understand or something that makes us upset,”He just has to learn to relate better.” What I’ve learned is that the way that men are wired to relate is totally legitimate. It’s just totally different. We don’t have to make them relate the way we do./blockquotebr /br /While I don’t think pronouncing that you are so Godlike that you are bestowing men with legitimacy for their way of thinking, it seems that Shaunti Feldhahn has a few decent things to say.
"What I've learned is that the way that men are wired to relate is totally legitimate."