Bad Advice: It’s Okay If Your Friends Date Losers
"You're so dumb for stooping to a guy like that! You deserve someone as smart as you!"
July 24, 2013 - 7:56 am
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Dear Bad Advice,
This is more of a general question than a specific one. I seem to have a bunch of female friends who only date losers. They’re nice, normal, non-dramatic girls themselves who deserve a lot better, but they seem to get into these relationships, over and over, with guys who are just lazy, inconsiderate, commitment-phobic, or lacking social skill. They’re not abusive guys; they’re just not as good as I know my friends could get, or deserve. I don’t know why my female friends keep going out with them, and keep putting up with those guys long after it should be obvious they’re losers. I’ve tried telling them they should do better for themselves, but they get angry or dismissive or they just ignore my advice. It doesn’t do anything to dispel the idea that “good guys always finish last.” How do I get them to realize they could do so much better?
- Protective Friend
This is going to sound like bad advice, but just let your friends date losers.