You're Not As Happy As You Think You Are
Last fall Bret Baier from Fox News interviewed author and Fox News contributor Charles Krauthammer about his best-selling book, Things that Matter: Three Decades of Passions, Pastimes, and Politics. They discussed Krauthammer's spinal cord injury that paralyzed him in his twenties while he was a medical student at Harvard. Krauthammer said,
"I made one promise to myself on day one. I was not going to let it alter my life except in ways where were, sort of, having to do with gravity. I'm not going to defy gravity and I'm not going to walk and I'm not going to water ski again. That's fine. So that you know. But on the big things in life, the direction of my life, what I was going to do, that wouldn't change at all."
Krauthammer told Baier that he never entertained the possibility that he would walk again. He accepted his fate and focused on accomplishing his goals in life regardless of his disabilities. Despite overwhelming hardships, Krauthammer managed to graduate from medical school with his class and went on to a residency at Massachusetts General Hospital.
He ran into some unexpected problems, however, during his psychiatry residency, when all residents were required to attend "group therapy" once a week. Krauthammer refused to attend. "I thought, it's a pointless exercise. So I was called into the chief's office after about seven weeks of non-appearance." Krauthammer explained that he was there to give therapy, not receive it. "The chief of residency told Krauthammer he was in denial. "And I said, 'Of course I'm in denial! Denial is the greatest of all defense mechanisms. I could be a professor of denial. I'm an expert at denial!' Krauthammer said. The chief "was not amused."
Krauthammer completed the required therapy, though he mostly refused to participate in the sessions:
"I'm not a big therapy guy...I don't like to talk about myself...I'm not a touchy -- I'm not a feely guy. That's probably why I quit psychiatry. If you're not into feelings and emotions and all the backstory then you ought to be doing something else."
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