13 Weeks: I Am a Diabetic
A good friend of mine had a heart attack the other day. She did everything right -- went to the ER right away when she had the first mild angina, she'd been taking care of herself with exercise and controlling her weight. In other words, pretty much the opposite of what my mother did two years ago.
It turned out to be mild, and she was given a stent and is rehabbing now. There were, however, two things that very possibly contributed: her blood sugar was elevated into "pre-diabetic" ranges and had been for years, and her blood lipids, cholesterol and the like, were pretty elevated.
So, now as well as doing the cardiac rehab routine of mild exercise, she's starting to manage her blood sugar, and she's on a statin drug for the lipids.
So we were talking about it this morning and she said something that struck a chord.
I bet you will identify with how much I cringe at the word diabetic. It is so associated with not taking care of yourself because of the media.
That really struck me, because I have noticed the same thing: I've found it very difficult to come out and say "I am a diabetic."
Movies and fiction about people who recover from alcoholism pr drugs usually have this dramatic, climactic scene where, after hitting bottom in some dramatic and more or less disgusting way, the main character has the "moment of clarity" and stands up in a meeting and says "I am an alcoholic." (Two great examples, by the way, are an under-appreciated Michael Keaton film Clean and Sober, and the Matthew Scudder books by Lawrence Block.) It's an important moment in recovery because it marks the point at which you are -- at the risk of sounding like I live in Boulder -- taking ownership of the problem. Your wife isn't driving you to drink, if it's genetic it's still your problem, and however you got there, that's where you are now and you have to deal with it.
It's also really hard to say because of the social stigma: socially, we see drunks as morally flawed. Same thing with obesity, with depression, and with drug addiction. Theodore Dalrymple has an instructive, if in my opinion mistaken, piece on this in PJM, where he questions whether we'd think of having "Arthritics Anonymous" where someone stands up and says "I am arthritic."
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