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Scott Ott


June 27, 2014 - 5:32 am
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Matt Lauer ran afoul of the unofficial speech code yesterday (see video clip below):

During the interview, which aired Thursday on NBC’s Today, Lauer brought up a recent statement made by [GM CEO Mary] Barra about missing her son’s junior prom: “My kids told me the one job they are going to hold me accountable for is ‘Mom.’ ”

Lauer followed up: “Given the pressures of this job at General Motors, can you do both well?”

Twitterers and pundits want to know if he would have asked that question of a male CEO, because if not, he’s sexist. Lauer points out that Today has actually done a series on the challenges of working fathers, and that he was merely following up on Barra’s remarks on the topic in a Forbes article, which he would have done for anyone.

But, Matt, what you don’t seem to understand is that you violated the speech code because you suggested that motherhood is a full-time job, and this is not tolerable in a post-gender society.

Of course, as any Mom (or Dad) knows, it is more difficult for a mother to maintain a full-time career. There’s a sense of fulfillment and wholeness that comes from engagement with her children, because of a primal bond that men can never fully comprehend. When that is interrupted, it creates tension, and pain, and worry and a sense of loss.

None of this means that women should be restricted to quarters after childbirth. But let’s be honest, the challenge for her is greater than for her husband.

And this is not denigrating to women — in fact, it’s elevating.

Motherhood is heroic, and crucial, and desperately essential. It is the most important work on earth. Being the CEO of GM is secondary. And there’s nothing wrong with saying so. In fact, failing to recognize that, and trying to elevate extra-domestic careerism above Motherhood, is dehumanizing to women everywhere.

See the video on the next page. 

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There are full time mothers, and there are part time mothers.

Like it or not.
20 weeks ago
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Given that the liberal elites are so accostumed to having nannies and think that a person losing their job and home can be equated to losing a nanny like Obama said, what business is it of his?

For women who run households, families and full time professional careers, they are even more suited for the job...they know how to get things done. Libs don;t understand that: they have nannies and never get anything done.

Laur was taking the typical liberal swipe at mothers.
21 weeks ago
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Please give us a down arrow!
21 weeks ago
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Whoa be unto ANY FOX news correspondent if they stepped into this hornet's nest...but Matt Lauer...he'll get a "hallpass"!!
21 weeks ago
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Anyone who thinks being a SAHM is not a full-time job is right: it's 24/7/365.
21 weeks ago
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This comment was probably based on the way his mother raised him and then the way his wife raised his children.
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