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If Fatherhood Falls in a Forest…

This is the sound it makes.

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Hannah Sternberg

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February 3, 2014 - 9:30 am
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TheParisReviewFatherhood has been undergoing a dramatic redefinition in recent years, amply covered by journalists, scientists, and sitcoms. That’s why the Tweet I saw today (“Do fathers make good writers? Do writers make good fathers?“) was clickbait I eagerly lapped up.

The article I wound up reading, “The Pram in the Hall,” revealed more about its author, Shane Jones, than it did about writing or parenthood. Jones is admittedly image-obsessed, and that’s evident when he spends most of this article talking not about the unique challenges parenthood poses to writing, but about the challenges it poses to his carefully cultivated personal and professional image.

He writes, “In our culture, fatherhood means baggy khakis and cars with side-impact airbags—it’s something of a joke.”

I don’t see how that’s something of a joke — I just see a comfortable man in a safe car. And people in the book world aren’t known for their glamorous good looks and fashion sense, either, so I’m not sure how any of that is a threat to his career. Have you been to a publishing trade show lately? Clint and Stacey would have a heart attack.

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There is no such thing as a "parent". There are mothers. There are fathers. There is motherhood. There is fatherhood. There is no such thing as "parenthood". There is mothering. There is fathering. There is no such thing as "parenting". Men and women are different. Get it?
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It depends on the topic a writer is usually focused on...I've not read this guy before, whats his specialty?

I wouldn’t expect much "change" in the work of an author of historic-biographies, business analysis, or software/tech junkie articles just because they now have kids.

If Writing is your PROFESSION, like most other careers you’ll have the Work/ Home, Compartmentalization thing going on….so….what the problem?

My passions are The American Civil War, and Antique Italian Motorcycles...cant figure where any references to my beautiful, beloved son would appear in any of my musings on those subjects.

Am I a changed man after becoming a father?
Absolutely.

What has that got to do with the development of the Spencer Carbine, or tuning of desmodromic valve trains?….and, who among my readers would CARE?
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I didn't start publishing until 2010, when my son was in his 20s.

Yet, his birth and having the opportunity to raise him on my own when his mother left is the finest thing I have ever done in my life.

Such a dramatic change in someones life, is bound to change him and his art.
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if a tree falls in the forest , and there is no one to hear it , is he still wrong
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The War Against Boys: How Misguided Feminism Is Harming Our Young Men by Christina Hoff Sommers
Taken Into Custody: The War Against Fathers, Marriage and the Family by Stephen Baskerville (At least go to Amazon and read the Preface and Introduction to these two books.)

Purple Heart's Final Beat - A Soldier Suicide Story
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0_StCzStBy0
Plunder: How Public Employee Unions Are Raiding Treasuries, Controlling Our Lives and Bankrupting the Nation by Steven Greenhut
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Artists are almost by definition adolescent narcissists. He doesn't understand fatherhood because he's not grown up enough to grasp the notion.
42 weeks ago
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Don't reproduce.
42 weeks ago
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There is no such thing as a "parent". There are mothers. There are fathers. There is motherhood. There is fatherhood. There is no such thing as "parenthood". There is mothering. There is fathering. There is no such thing as "parenting". Men and women are different. Get it?
45 weeks ago
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As my mother often said: "Kids need Moms & Dads who are spending time being Mom & Dad, not one or the other."
42 weeks ago
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I thank God for those differences!
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>>Coincidence?
I think not.

Sorry, I had to, I didn't have it in me to resist.
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