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Why So Courteous?

Might helping others be selfish?

by
Walter Hudson

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December 10, 2013 - 10:00 am
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Why So Courteous

This will come across sanctimonious, like I’m trying to flaunt how good of a person I am. So let me start by offering the assurance that I prove no more courteous than anyone else, and may even be a bit below average. I use an example of my own courtesy because I remain well-informed as to its motivation.

I went to the gas station the other day to pick up a couple of snacks which I should not be eating. I was in no hurry. It was one of those meandering stops where you spend more time than you really need applying more thought than is rationally due to whether you should experiment with a new flavor of Combos.

When I finally completed my selection, I made my way to the register, where I stood in line behind one other person. A women rushed in from the arctic weather (uncharacteristically cold for this time of year, even in Minnesota) clasping onto a ten dollar bill and signaling without any sense of entitlement that she was in a hurry.

I stood next to be served and could have taken that privilege without objection. But I made the decision to yield my place in line to her. She paid her ten dollars for pump four and went on her way, delaying me mere seconds as opposed to the minute or so I may have delayed her.

As I left, seven layer dip tortilla Combos in hand, I pondered why I had stepped aside. Here I am, an admirer of Ayn Rand, an advocate of individual rights, frequently evoking rational self-interest in my analysis of politics and culture. Was my tiny act of courtesy a violation of that principle? Did I fail to act in my own rational self-interest by allowing a stranger to take my place in line? Did I sacrifice something of value for something of lesser or no value?

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Everything any of us do is motivated by self-interest. It matters not if someone shares your values..... if you "help" them, it is primarily because doing so will make you feel good or provide some other reward to YOU.

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It has been said that a truly good deed is one done when no one is looking. For believers, what moment is that?
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So there is never a moment when no one is looking.....that's my point.

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I mean no disrespect. I'm along for this wild and crazy ride, too.

My point is simply that we are a creature that cannot possibly do anything for selfless reasons. The man who runs int the burning building
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