“Don’t apologize. Your enemies won’t believe it and your friends don’t need to hear it.”
— Bumper sticker.
It should be obvious by now that President Barack Obama and his administration don’t know some basic things about the conduct of international relations. The apology-to-Afghanistan affair is an example of this problem but not quite in the way that the debate over it posits.
Now it is being reported that five U.S. soldiers and an Afghan interpreter are going to be charged with burning the books. If this happens, not only will these hapless soldiers who had no idea they were doing anything wrong have their careers ruined, and perhaps face prison time, but they will have the possibility for the rest of their lives that Islamist terrorists will come after them. As for the Afghan interpreter and his family, the odds of their being murdered are very high.
The way the story has been reported — though much of the mass media has not mentioned the initial cause of the problem — is as follows. Some Taliban prisoners were writing secret messages in their Korans to pass back and forth. The books were confiscated and in order that the messages not go any further someone ordered something and these Korans were burned. I don’t know the true details of this incident.
So far more than two dozen people have died, riots have proliferated, several U.S. soldiers were murdered, and Obama apologized for the destruction of the Korans.
On Obama’s side, the president said that the apology had cooled things down. This was demonstrably untrue as the turmoil was continuing. And there is no proof at all — an important point — that his apology soothed anyone.
The critics said that instead of the United States apologizing to Afghanistan, Afghanistan should apologize to the United States for the ensuing violence.
Let’s examine this in realpolitik terms rather than as a manual of etiquette would do it.
To my knowledge, no Middle Eastern government, other than Israel, has ever apologized for anything. For example, the Afghan government never has, and never will, apologize for that country’s role in the September 11 attacks on the United States. Equally, no Middle Eastern government, other than Israel, expresses gratitude, a point that applies to Afghanistan, Iraq, Kuwait, and Libya in response to the U.S. role in helping to “liberate” them from foreign occupation and dreadful dictators. And what about the Palestinian Authority giving thanks for billions of dollars of aid and all the diplomatic support the United States has given? Nope again.
On the contrary, the “chip on shoulder” mentality remains. It’s even worse than viewing help and aid as an entitlement; it’s a strong tendency to deny that any help or aid has ever been given at all. And this quickly goes over to the claim that U.S. help and aid were just conspiracies to injure them. We are already seeing this in Egypt.
Another thing that Obama doesn’t understand is that doing anything becomes helping one side in a conflict. Failure to speak out against the Iranian regime when it stole an election and repressed the opposition is seen in Iran as U.S. support for the Islamist government. Engaging, flattering, and being nice to the Syrian dictatorship is perceived as backing a tyrannical regime within Syria. Obama is piling up precisely the same kind of “sins” as his predecessors. And so one day an American president may end up apologizing to these countries–and to Egypt, Libya, and Tunisia, too–for Obama’s helping to install or backing dictatorships in those countries.
Yet the culture of diplomatic apology and a policy of gratitude are Western or American characteristics, not Middle Eastern ones.
On the contrary, here is what happens if the United States says: We accidentally destroyed a couple of Koran that had been written all over by terrorists so they could murder more Afghans and Americans. Sorry.
The message received is: THE INFIDELS DELIBERATELY BURNED THE HOLY KORAN! KILL THEM!!
The poor translator and anyone else who works with the United States in Afghanistan will be assaulted with the following words: YOU WORK WITH THE INFIDELS WHO BURNED THE KORAN! TRAITOR! WE WILL KILL YOU.
The response is not going to be: Wow, thanks, guys, we’re sure you didn’t do it on purpose and we really appreciate all your help in getting rid of a murderous dictatorship. Don’t worry about it.
See, it doesn’t quite work.
What we have here is a total disconnect between reality and White House policy. To apologize is seen as confessing guilt to an unpardonable offense that deserves death as a punishment. Better just to shut up.