John Podhoretz asks this question in the lead-off comments for Dr. Helen Smith’s new advice column on Pajamas.
(No, I don’t have an answer. I just do it… Yours is not to reason why… yours is just to do or… etc.)
BTW, new column by the Instawife looks to be fun. Jump in.








If JPod were married to Dr Helen, he would not be asking that question. He would be asking “lube or no lube”.