January 3, 2012 - 3:43 pm
My interview with Advice Goddess Amy Alkon on men’s issues is now up at Blog Talk Radio. You can listen to us discuss paternity fraud, men’s reproductive rights (or lack thereof), domestic violence, and how men can learn to survive in a female-centered world:
Listen to internet radio with amyalkon on Blog Talk Radio
First of all, I listened to the entire podcast. Thanks for putting so much effort into determining why manhood is nearly extinct. As a single man, I will definitely agree with virtually all of your points.
-From what I have seen of women my age, none are trustworthy enough to kiss, let alone have a lasting relationship with.
-I was raised by my mother (my dad supposedly is the devil, which I assure you is not remotely true)
-I have come to the conclusion that I will maintain my own distinct right to my happiness. If a woman ever does enter my life, she will acknowledge this, or she will be kicked to the curb.
-I’ve been told how mature I am for my age since I was 12. I’d rather find more mature women and men than be the exception to the rule.
-My father, who is my only remaining parent, is a man fighting a lot of losing battles. He loved my mother, even with her hatred of him, yet he was ignored. He loves my sisters’ mother, yet she made him out to be a devil too. His psychotic ex-girlfriend, who nearly tore my family in two, got the advantage in court because she claimed “abuse”. Now he is not allowed to have weapons under his care, nor is he allowed to be a member of the local car club, all because the owner of the club sided with the psychotic woman over my dad. Additionally, she calls him daily using *67 and harasses him over the phone, but the police refuse to do anything (even though they both have restraining orders).
So what it really boils down to for me is this:
1) I want a woman that I can completely trust without any reservations.
2) I want a family with said woman that doesn’t involve the feminist legal system.
3) Since neither of the above are probable concepts, I guess I’ll just stay single. Better that than to get married, have kids, and then get blacklisted for the rest of my life when the wife runs away from her commitment.
I apologize for the long response, but I felt like my input may help your research into this.
interesting article topics
Zamir,
Thanks very much for your response to our show. Please remember that though the legal system may be an enemy of men in its current state, that hopefully, will change with education and awareness. They say that living well is the best revenge. Though your father’s situation should make you aware, remember that many other outcomes are possible.
Great interview! Keep spreading the truth! But, I do not like the use of the term Beta-Males. I find it disrectspectful to males who are not as assertive, successful etc -possibly hinting that they are failures, weak or defective in some way. Let’s look for a less derogatory way of describing males who are not ‘macho men’. Differentiating between alpha and beta males/females can suggest a weakness or fault in the latter when it is simply human nature to be more or less passive (etc) and in no way wrong.