DATING ADVICE: “Well, for starters, what makes you think you ‘deserve someone great’? I’m not trying to be snarky; I really want to know. So often, most of us think we ‘deserve’ stuff — love, happiness, a great life — simply because we’re alive and breathing. Or because we aren’t, like, horrible, awful people. Or, because we had such crappy pasts, karma owes us something. Or … because we’re pretty.”