21ST CENTURY RELATIONSHIPS: Women Find Orgasms Elusive in Hookups. Hey, every woman is different. On a one-night stand, the best you can do is apply your one-size-fits-most approach; learning the specifics comes later, if there is a later. And for some guys, if they’re pretty sure it’s only a one-nighter, they may not even make that much effort.

But don’t worry, feminism has an answer! “When her partner’s performance was lackluster, she still took pride in her own sexual prowess.” As IowaHawk observed a while back, it’s amazing how much of modern feminism seems to have been thought up by horny teenaged boys.

On the other hand, while you’re taking pride in your sexual prowess, be aware that the guy might be faking it.