WHEN WOMEN ENGAGE IN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, IT’S TAGGED LIKE THIS: “Here’s one way to heat things up with an ex.” “Nicole Dobol found this out the hard way when she busted into her ex-boyfriend’s home and was so overcome by jealousy that it made her a bit crazy. The 29-year-old set the couple’s mattress on fire while they were asleep and stood over them, watching the flames grow higher.” Just a quirky news story about love gone wrong. . . .