7 Things to NEVER Say to a Full-Term Pregnant Woman
As I sit here, 3 days shy of the due date of my third child, I have had time to reflect on all that really annoys me about this last stage of pregnancy. Chief among them is the stupid things people say. Yes, some of you people are people I love, but I'm allowed to be grouchy. Someone is literally sitting on my last nerve causing my right leg to be numb most of the time. There are lots of things you don't say to pregnant women like "Hey, you're not really eating for two!" or "You look tired," but nothing rankles more than when in the last days of pregnancy people seem to lose their sensitivity controls. The following are things I've heard in the last week that make me want to high five someone... in the face.
7. "Enjoy this time. You're going to miss it."
I did enjoy this pregnancy and that ended about one month ago. The belly was fun, the cute maternity shirts were fun (back when they fit me). I enjoyed walking back then, I sort of remember what that was like to get out and stroll about without pain and constant fear of a jab to the cervix at an inopportune time that almost sends me to my knees weeping. But at about 8 months along all of that became a distant memory. There's absolutely nothing I'm going to miss about being 40 weeks pregnant. Every fetal movement is painful and most of the time it's excruciating; strangers look at me with their finger on the 911 button because I've just cried out in public and grabbed my extended belly and they think I'm in labor. Nope, not labor, just a future martial-arts expert kicking the crap out of my spleen.
But thanks for the concern.
I'm not going to miss having to pull myself into the car in three deliberate maneuvers trying not to aggravate the round ligament pain flare-ups. (If you don't know what that is, just thank God and move on.) I will not miss the searing heartburn and acid reflux that no amount of antacid will quench and that wake me up literally gagging for air every hour every night. I will not miss the constant trips to the bathroom only to find out there's nothing in my bladder, just someone on it. I will not miss dropping things I care about on the ground and leaving them there to avoid having to bend over to fetch them. Goodbye iPhone. That's what insurance is for. I will not miss crying for no reason while chopping vegetables and having to explain to my children why Mommy is sobbing. "I DON'T KNOW, OK?? You people cry whenever you want, why can't I?"
Please stop telling me I am going to miss this time. It makes me want to throw things at your head.
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