Finding Mr. Righteous: A Single Christian Guy's Perspective
I approached Lisa De Pasquale's new book Finding Mr. Righteous with some trepidation. Ann Coulter referred to it as "a true Christian story disguised as racy chick lit." The reader reviews on Amazon contained phrases like "gets to the inner workings of the mind of an insecure young woman" and "as [if] she was writing about my loving and sexual past." Our own David Swindle called it "a time bomb waiting to explode." I thought, ohhhhhh boy. But when David personally recommended it to me, I figured it must be a good read.
Lisa didn't disappoint. It seems a little weird to refer to her by her first name, since doing so goes against everything you learn about how you're supposed to write, but after reading Finding Mr. Righteous and talking to her a little about it on Twitter, I feel like I've known her for a long time.
Finding Mr. Righteous jumps in to Lisa's romantic and sexual life with gusto. She never pulls any punches when it comes to her experiences. Situations get steamy from time to time, but I never felt like I was on the verge of being offended. This is no creepy confessional or salacious tell-all -- it's a memoir of a mature woman telling it like it is, warts and all. More often than not, I'd finish a chapter thinking, so that's what women think about men.
Lisa is a keen judge of human nature as well. She provides astute glimpses behind the facades of the men she's dated. She offers plenty of fascinating observations like:
Chris was a cat person. But having one view wasn't enough for him. He had to denigrate the opposing view. Chris's cat versus dog views were like his views on religion. It wasn't enough to just accept that some people are religious and some people are not. You had to be an atheist or true believer. And if you were a true believer, you were ignorant.