No, Robin Thicke and Paula Patton's Split Isn't 'Shocking'
A divorce is never funny. Despite that, I couldn't help but laugh at some of the coverage of Robin Thicke and Paula Patton's separation yesterday. CNN, Entertainment Tonight and People magazine quickly added the couple to their picture slideshows of the most "shocking" splits in Hollywood.
The first time I heard of Thicke was when he famously, or should I say infamously, took the stage with Miley Cyrus and added the word "twerk" to our national vocabulary. After watching Thicke perform a semi-pornographic dance with a young woman in front of millions, I assumed he was single. When I heard he was married, I wondered when this announcement regarding a divorce would be coming. Of the twerking, Thicke's wife Patton unconvincingly said:
"It doesn't affect me any more at all," Patton said during a sit-down on E! News today with Giuliana Rancic and Terrence Jenkins.
The key part of the above statement is "any more" -- implying that it did affect Patton at one time. News of Thicke's wandering eyes and hands (seen above) circulated as well. Patton continued to deny that the behavior of her husband was affecting her marriage, and outlets covering her remarks seemed to actually buy it, given the coverage of their separation.
What about the split is so shocking to the media? Thicke and Patton had been together for about twenty years, having met in their teen years. ET bemoaned in their coverage of the breakup that "few Hollywood couples have been together as long as they have." Twenty years. That's apparently record-setting for those writing about the couple in the media.
During the Olympics, NBC News deemed the lifestyle of an American skier "alternative." What was so trailblazing about his life choices? He had married "young" and had a child at home, all before the age where most Americans find themselves kicked off of their parent's insurance plans.
Somehow the media decided that the dissolution of Patton and Thicke's marriage -- punctuated by groping and tweaking -- was somehow shocking, while simultaneously deeming a young marriage where children entered the picture earlier rather than later "alternative." If we held the media, not to mention Hollywood, up to the standards of the rest of the country, we might not see quite as many "shocking" splits like these in the future. Instead, we might see more "alternative" couples marrying young, with the intention of staying together.
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