5 Dating Rules for Single Moms That Could Save Your Child's Life
I have been focusing on the detriment to society posed by single motherhood in my series found in installments here: Part 1, and Part 2. Today, I want to talk directly to single mothers who truly do want to find someone to complete their family and create stability in the lives of their children. Since it is true that dating poses the biggest threat to the well-being of children parented by a single mom, there are steps that need to be taken before wading into the dating pool. If you don't want your child to end up like Adrian Peterson's young son, beaten to death by a live-in boyfriend (allegedly), then please take this seriously.
You are a mother first, not a woman with "needs". Your children have needs that come before yours and if you don't want to see them on a cold slab one day you need to see to their needs first. There are good men out there who will be excellent fathers to fatherless children. But you must, as a single mother in your search for love be focused on finding love for your children. Not all men who love you will love your children and most of them, statistically, will hurt your children. So be very, very careful. Your children's lives depend on you.
A child raised by a single mother is 10 times more likely to be abused by a live-in boyfriend than any child in a home with two biological, married parents. This is a fact. If you as a single mother know that your child is 10 times more likely to be abused by your boyfriend (which now you do because I've told you) how far would you go to make sure it never happens to your child?
To start, follow these simple rules to lessen your chances of being on the wrong side of the statistics.
First up, slow and steady wins the race...