BARI WEISS: Believe Science: Get Vaccinated. Then Relax.

If you don’t want to go to the dinner, don’t go. Let the rest of us enjoy ourselves.

To my mind, one of the best essays written during this fiasco of a year was by Dr. Norman Doidge, who explained in Tablet what lockdown does to us psychologically. “Lockdown bequeaths us a map,” he wrote, “in which my little home, my apartment, my room, the world inside is good and safe; but the outside, is nothing but dangerous. It begins by physically enclosing us, but ends by mentally enclosing us. We may not be paranoid (because there truly is a virus out there), but we nonetheless start living as paranoids do. Lockdown forecloses unlockdown.”

In other words, once we are stuck inside it is very hard to unstick ourselves. I’m trying to remind myself of this truth when I find myself wanting to berate friends who, fully vaccinated, look at me with crazy eyes when I suggest coming over for dinner. PTSD might be too strong a descriptor, but it’s not so far off either.

So try to have empathy for friends like these, who are having a hard time unlocking lockdown. But also: it’s ok to ignore their judgment and not waste a moment second-guessing having dinner with other vaccinated friends.

As Weiss also writes, “You’re not crazy: the public messaging on this has been a disaster.” QED: Jake Tapper to Anita Dunn: Hey, why is Biden still wearing a mask outdoors? And why does Dunn seem to be “saying all Americans have to get vaccinated against COVID before schools can reopen? It sounds like it. If true, parents have to organize and fight this nonsense. This isn’t about public health concerns anymore. It’s about political control. The teacher unions should be busted up since they have been exposed as a detriment to the education of children, out only for their own power and control. If the time is not now to demand better for America’s kids when is?”