SARAH RUMPF ON THE AZIZ ANSARI KERFUFFLE: “A large part of her complaint seems to be that Aziz Ansari is not the characters he plays on television.”. But: “The real human Aziz Ansari was more clumsy than suave, more dork than adorkable, more horndog than heartthrob. But every time Grace did actually articulate she wanted something, he gave it to her. She said she didn’t want to have sex, and although he did ask again several times, he didn’t force her. When she said she wanted to go home, he called her an Uber. . . . Is it really reasonable for Grace to expect Ansari to pick up on her ‘non-verbal cues’ that she was feeling uncomfortable when what he saw was a naked woman giving him a blow job?”