21ST CENTURY RELATIONSHIPS: Women Explain Why It’s Okay For Women To Stalk Men Online. “I need to go through your Facebook history and look for statements that set off red flags — republicanism, homophobia, sexism, classism, racism, transphobia, ignorance, etc. If I’m going to spend the bulk of the relationship trying to teach you how to be a decent human, then f**k it; not worth my time. . . . Takeaway? Men, we’re watching you. You may think you’re getting away with your dastardly deeds, but we’ve got an eye on you and nothing is going to slip past us. Thanks, Mark Zuckerberg! Thanks, Google!”