NEW YOU CAN USE: How To Pick A Husband If You Want To Have Kids. “Most people just will not like these choices. Nothing here is good. It’s reality, and of course it’s not as good as fantasy. The only good, real thing is that you have choices, and you can figure out who you are and what you need and you can get what you need. The only thing worse than the choices I’ve just laid out is not making a choice.”

Plus, in the comments: “If you can live off of $45K then you can marry a breadwinner who earns $45K. The more money you need in order to feel like you have a breadwinner, the harder it is to find a breadwinner.”