Ask Dr. Helen

My a href=""PJM column is up:/abr /br /blockquoteMiddle-aged virgins are not necessarily the stuff of comedy. Choosing to wait is just fine, writes Dr. Helen Smith — unless past sexual abuse or a debilitating lack of confidence is making the choice for you. /blockquotebr /br /a href=""Go take a look /a and drop a line if you have something to add.