8 Ways To Destroy Your Friendships
1. LIAR, LIAR PANTS ON FIRE
There he was, Mr. America, lying to our faces, as if the entire adult population of the United States agreed with him that fellatio wasn't a part of sexual relations. Our mistake, Mr. President! It must be -- what? Part of preparing interns for paying jobs? Would those be in the private sector or the public?
When you lie to a friend, thinking he knows less than he does, he realizes that you're lying. You're not only lying, you're also insulting him. This is why telling serious lies is both insidiously wounding and oafishly boorish.
Lying is just another way of saying, "I think you're so dim, you'll believe anything I tell you."
It's the "you're so dim" part of lying that really gets to people.
Here, we’re not talking about the “white lies” that help make life agreeable, or at least livable. We’re talking about a friend looking you in the eye and telling you a whopper, and a whopper that takes you for a fool, as whoppers are wont to do.