“Better yet, have a black friend who’s on your side start a “confrontation” with people like that and have him ridicule them- losing a black person’s support is like kryptonite to them, because they have nothing else.”

Few among those who agree with you have any black friends who are on their side.

You bring your black friend, I’ll bring half a dozen. All with degrees and with experiences they will share with you, but you will chose not to believe them.