“It’s all about the framing.

I’ve been chatting with someone of the opposite sex for years over the internet — met her twice IRL, my Significant Other met her one of those times. The SO and I sent her a wedding gift for her first marriage some years back. She’s had financial difficulties as long as I’ve known her. She’s done craft-a-thons for causes like her cats’ vet bills where I’ve contributed — she’s sent me a birthday gift or two. I’ve tried to be a mentor when I could, a friend when I couldn’t.

Viewed through a Cain lens, this could be a massive scandal.”

What???? Can DID NOT TELL HIS WIFE. You did. That’s all the difference in the world. Didn’t you read the post above?