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		<title>By: Doug</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/richardfernandez/2009/10/18/by-way-of-marriage/#comment-76705</link>
		<dc:creator>Doug</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 20:39:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can&#039;t watch!
Think how many American Fingers the Enviros have saved!
(at a cost yet to be fully determined)

Our next door neighbor was a welder for Standard Oil.
As a kid, I saw up close the aftermath of an accident in which someone was killed by falling steel.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can&#8217;t watch!<br />
Think how many American Fingers the Enviros have saved!<br />
(at a cost yet to be fully determined)</p>
<p>Our next door neighbor was a welder for Standard Oil.<br />
As a kid, I saw up close the aftermath of an accident in which someone was killed by falling steel.</p>
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		<title>By: Jamie</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/richardfernandez/2009/10/18/by-way-of-marriage/#comment-76689</link>
		<dc:creator>Jamie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 15:32:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My husband and I, in our just-post-college days, sat on natural gas drill rigs (OK, technically we worked in mudlogging trailers beside the rigs, both being bachelor&#039;s degree baby geologists then). The best rig we ever worked on (multiple times) was run by a toolpusher (foreman) who went by &quot;Cotton.&quot; He was a &lt;i&gt;taskmaster&lt;/i&gt; to his guys. He himself wore jeans and a(n un-embellished) t-shirt that started every tour (shift) as spotless, and any rig hand who wasn&#039;t actively engaged in drilling at the moment was on some part of the rig with a can of paint, painting. 

It was the cleanest, best-maintained, most organized rig in the Sacramento Valley, and the roughnecks tended to have all their fingers and teeth. Cotton demanded discipline and good order, and his guys, while they worked hard painting (and doing all other maintenance - but they had time to paint because he never let mechanical maintenance get away from him), were in less danger and were more efficient in their skills than on any other rig I ever worked. They liked being Cotton&#039;s hands; they fought to stay on his rig.

I figure that&#039;s why one polishes brass.

(OT for this post but OnT for drilling, I just found this (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dxw03U0yLAQ) video of rig hands making pipe connections. Whew. Brings back memories... and makes me wonder anew how ANY of them kept their fingers.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband and I, in our just-post-college days, sat on natural gas drill rigs (OK, technically we worked in mudlogging trailers beside the rigs, both being bachelor&#8217;s degree baby geologists then). The best rig we ever worked on (multiple times) was run by a toolpusher (foreman) who went by &#8220;Cotton.&#8221; He was a <i>taskmaster</i> to his guys. He himself wore jeans and a(n un-embellished) t-shirt that started every tour (shift) as spotless, and any rig hand who wasn&#8217;t actively engaged in drilling at the moment was on some part of the rig with a can of paint, painting. </p>
<p>It was the cleanest, best-maintained, most organized rig in the Sacramento Valley, and the roughnecks tended to have all their fingers and teeth. Cotton demanded discipline and good order, and his guys, while they worked hard painting (and doing all other maintenance &#8211; but they had time to paint because he never let mechanical maintenance get away from him), were in less danger and were more efficient in their skills than on any other rig I ever worked. They liked being Cotton&#8217;s hands; they fought to stay on his rig.</p>
<p>I figure that&#8217;s why one polishes brass.</p>
<p>(OT for this post but OnT for drilling, I just found this (<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dxw03U0yLAQ" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dxw03U0yLAQ</a>) video of rig hands making pipe connections. Whew. Brings back memories&#8230; and makes me wonder anew how ANY of them kept their fingers.)</p>
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		<title>By: Doug</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/richardfernandez/2009/10/18/by-way-of-marriage/#comment-76676</link>
		<dc:creator>Doug</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 08:33:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>“&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.nytimes.com/2009/10/20/health/20well.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Treating Dementia, but Overlooking Its Physical Toll&lt;/a&gt;”

Dementia is a physical illness, too — a progressive, terminal disease that shuts down the body as it attacks the brain. The lack of understanding about the physical toll of dementia means that many patients near the end of life are subjected to aggressive treatments that would never be considered with another terminal illness.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/10/20/health/20well.html" rel="nofollow">Treating Dementia, but Overlooking Its Physical Toll</a>”</p>
<p>Dementia is a physical illness, too — a progressive, terminal disease that shuts down the body as it attacks the brain. The lack of understanding about the physical toll of dementia means that many patients near the end of life are subjected to aggressive treatments that would never be considered with another terminal illness.</p>
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		<title>By: Doug</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/richardfernandez/2009/10/18/by-way-of-marriage/#comment-76674</link>
		<dc:creator>Doug</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 06:07:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>19. Sylvia:
How do you acquire content on the web, do you use a text to speech program?
I noticed a loss of muscle memory after about 3 weeks following an injury, iow, I was better able to perform some tasks requiring co-ordination immediately after the injury than I could a month later.
Obviously, if I had had a similar MIL, I could have done some excercises to reduce that loss.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>19. Sylvia:<br />
How do you acquire content on the web, do you use a text to speech program?<br />
I noticed a loss of muscle memory after about 3 weeks following an injury, iow, I was better able to perform some tasks requiring co-ordination immediately after the injury than I could a month later.<br />
Obviously, if I had had a similar MIL, I could have done some excercises to reduce that loss.</p>
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		<title>By: toad</title>
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		<dc:creator>toad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 02:19:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it was Mr. Free Market who said, &quot;Charles is mad as a fish, but he is far better than anyone in the Labor government.&quot;

I know of an autistic who as a child really benefited from video games.

If you follow the Milblogs you&#039;ll run across reports of how the younger generations game control experience has made them deadly with the remote controls for military equipment: CROWS, UAVs, and field robots.  

I rember that when they had the National Guard prep for riot duty in Dallas back in the old days, the Sgts had the troops sand off the Parkerizing on the bayonets and polish them up.  When they did their crowd control drill with the bayonets thrusting on the step, it gave me the Huzz.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it was Mr. Free Market who said, &#8220;Charles is mad as a fish, but he is far better than anyone in the Labor government.&#8221;</p>
<p>I know of an autistic who as a child really benefited from video games.</p>
<p>If you follow the Milblogs you&#8217;ll run across reports of how the younger generations game control experience has made them deadly with the remote controls for military equipment: CROWS, UAVs, and field robots.  </p>
<p>I rember that when they had the National Guard prep for riot duty in Dallas back in the old days, the Sgts had the troops sand off the Parkerizing on the bayonets and polish them up.  When they did their crowd control drill with the bayonets thrusting on the step, it gave me the Huzz.</p>
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		<title>By: Gringo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gringo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 02:12:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here is the golden oldie &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TxwNLxy5_8A&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Mother-in-law.&lt;/a&gt; While they are the butts of jokes and of this song, most mother-in-laws get along well with their in-laws. After all, they have something in common with the in-law: someone they both love.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here is the golden oldie <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TxwNLxy5_8A" rel="nofollow">Mother-in-law.</a> While they are the butts of jokes and of this song, most mother-in-laws get along well with their in-laws. After all, they have something in common with the in-law: someone they both love.</p>
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		<title>By: JFSanders031</title>
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		<dc:creator>JFSanders031</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 00:39:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amazing recovery for this gentleman. He is extremely lucky to have such a woman that cares enough for him to put forth the effort. 

Have you seen the article &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/uk/health/article6879553.ece&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;NHS staff gets private care at ratepayer expense?!&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amazing recovery for this gentleman. He is extremely lucky to have such a woman that cares enough for him to put forth the effort. </p>
<p>Have you seen the article <a href="http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/uk/health/article6879553.ece" rel="nofollow">NHS staff gets private care at ratepayer expense?!</a></p>
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		<title>By: NahnCee</title>
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		<dc:creator>NahnCee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 21:25:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mando - I&#039;m thinking of Elizabeth.  She is a brave and staunch woman who went through one war side-by-side with Churchill.  Put her in charge instead of just agreeing to whichever imbecile is the currently anointed Prime Minister.  And really, is Charles any dumber than the rest of his peers?

Or since you are such a picker of nits, am I correct in thinking that you are a hot-headed young&#039;un and don&#039;t believe a female in her 80&#039;s could make a rationale decision.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mando &#8211; I&#8217;m thinking of Elizabeth.  She is a brave and staunch woman who went through one war side-by-side with Churchill.  Put her in charge instead of just agreeing to whichever imbecile is the currently anointed Prime Minister.  And really, is Charles any dumber than the rest of his peers?</p>
<p>Or since you are such a picker of nits, am I correct in thinking that you are a hot-headed young&#8217;un and don&#8217;t believe a female in her 80&#8242;s could make a rationale decision.</p>
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		<title>By: Beverly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Beverly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 20:42:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I saw the same syndrome with my mother, in the hospital last week. She&#039;s 81; has Alzheimer&#039;s and pancreatic cancer.

Because of the &quot;sundown syndrome,&quot; she was fighting everyone, especially late in the day: punching, kicking, biting. And doing this all night long. 

I asked my (overwhelmed) dad if she were getting any sedatives, and he said he thought so: but she was only getting a one-fifth dose of dilaudid every two hours, which apparently the docs and nurses told him had a &quot;sedative effect.&quot;

Well, for cryin&#039; out loud. I took the charge nurse aside in the hallway and ascertained the foregoing, then asked her, &quot;What has she got on the list as a SEDATIVE so she can get through the night peacefully?&quot; The nurse said the docs had authorized Atavan.

Well, for cryin&#039; out loud. Let&#039;s DO it, I said, and got Dad in the picture. He immediately agreed, emphatically and profanely. They gave Mom a shot, and she went off to sleep in five minutes flat. Had a quiet night, finally.

So I was trying to figure it out: Mom was in a hospice unit, with only seven patients and several nurses. Not understaffed, no big push on to save patients&#039; lives: so why didn&#039;t it occur to anyone to give her atavan?

My only guess is that they inure themselves to suffering, and this sort of thing becomes routine to them, so they almost shrug it off; and unless someone prods them, they don&#039;t take ANY initiative with the patient. Probably some hypercautiousness is part of it, too: they might figure that they could get sued by a distressed family if they were found responsible for keeping a dying person &quot;drugged up&quot; and out of it. 

I dunno. But you have to be a real sheepdog in this situation. God help anyone who&#039;s dying alone -- no one else will. :-(((</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I saw the same syndrome with my mother, in the hospital last week. She&#8217;s 81; has Alzheimer&#8217;s and pancreatic cancer.</p>
<p>Because of the &#8220;sundown syndrome,&#8221; she was fighting everyone, especially late in the day: punching, kicking, biting. And doing this all night long. </p>
<p>I asked my (overwhelmed) dad if she were getting any sedatives, and he said he thought so: but she was only getting a one-fifth dose of dilaudid every two hours, which apparently the docs and nurses told him had a &#8220;sedative effect.&#8221;</p>
<p>Well, for cryin&#8217; out loud. I took the charge nurse aside in the hallway and ascertained the foregoing, then asked her, &#8220;What has she got on the list as a SEDATIVE so she can get through the night peacefully?&#8221; The nurse said the docs had authorized Atavan.</p>
<p>Well, for cryin&#8217; out loud. Let&#8217;s DO it, I said, and got Dad in the picture. He immediately agreed, emphatically and profanely. They gave Mom a shot, and she went off to sleep in five minutes flat. Had a quiet night, finally.</p>
<p>So I was trying to figure it out: Mom was in a hospice unit, with only seven patients and several nurses. Not understaffed, no big push on to save patients&#8217; lives: so why didn&#8217;t it occur to anyone to give her atavan?</p>
<p>My only guess is that they inure themselves to suffering, and this sort of thing becomes routine to them, so they almost shrug it off; and unless someone prods them, they don&#8217;t take ANY initiative with the patient. Probably some hypercautiousness is part of it, too: they might figure that they could get sued by a distressed family if they were found responsible for keeping a dying person &#8220;drugged up&#8221; and out of it. </p>
<p>I dunno. But you have to be a real sheepdog in this situation. God help anyone who&#8217;s dying alone &#8212; no one else will. <img src='http://pjmedia.com/richardfernandez/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' /> ((</p>
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		<title>By: wws</title>
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		<dc:creator>wws</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 16:59:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Forget the monarchy, bring back Cromwell.  He&#039;s the only one with enough nerve to execute most of the current batch of Parliamnentarians. 

&quot;YOU HAVE BEEN SAT TO LONG HERE FOR ANY GOOD YOU HAVE BEEN DOING. DEPART, I SAY, AND LET US HAVE DONE WITH YOU. IN THE NAME OF GOD, GO!&quot;

Oliver Cromwell Addressing the Rump Parliament, April 1653.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Forget the monarchy, bring back Cromwell.  He&#8217;s the only one with enough nerve to execute most of the current batch of Parliamnentarians. </p>
<p>&#8220;YOU HAVE BEEN SAT TO LONG HERE FOR ANY GOOD YOU HAVE BEEN DOING. DEPART, I SAY, AND LET US HAVE DONE WITH YOU. IN THE NAME OF GOD, GO!&#8221;</p>
<p>Oliver Cromwell Addressing the Rump Parliament, April 1653.</p>
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