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		<title>By: marymcl</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/richardfernandez/2009/02/11/opening-the-package/#comment-35421</link>
		<dc:creator>marymcl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 15:06:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>uh-oh wrong thread......</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>uh-oh wrong thread&#8230;&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: marymcl</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/richardfernandez/2009/02/11/opening-the-package/#comment-35419</link>
		<dc:creator>marymcl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 15:01:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It doesn&#039;t look good -

http://www.usnews.com/usnews/politics/bulletin/bulletin_090217.htm


Obama Promoting Agenda In Key Battleground States

Media reports are casting President Obama&#039;s trip to Denver (where he&#039;ll sign the stimulus bill this morning) and Phoenix as an attempt to boost popular support for his economic agenda. Moreover, says the Los Angeles Times, the tour &quot;reflects a decision by the president to escape the Beltway and touch base with the rest of the country at least once a week&quot; and a recognition &quot;that congressional Republicans were gaining traction in the debate.&quot; The Politico says that &quot;in turning their fire on the capital&#039;s process-and-power-obsessed political class,&quot; Obama&#039;s aides are &quot;actually indulging in a time-honored Beltway tradition.&quot; Both Arizona and Colorado &quot;are...key to Obama&#039;s reelection strategy,&quot; notes The Hill</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It doesn&#8217;t look good -</p>
<p><a href="http://www.usnews.com/usnews/politics/bulletin/bulletin_090217.htm" rel="nofollow">http://www.usnews.com/usnews/politics/bulletin/bulletin_090217.htm</a></p>
<p>Obama Promoting Agenda In Key Battleground States</p>
<p>Media reports are casting President Obama&#8217;s trip to Denver (where he&#8217;ll sign the stimulus bill this morning) and Phoenix as an attempt to boost popular support for his economic agenda. Moreover, says the Los Angeles Times, the tour &#8220;reflects a decision by the president to escape the Beltway and touch base with the rest of the country at least once a week&#8221; and a recognition &#8220;that congressional Republicans were gaining traction in the debate.&#8221; The Politico says that &#8220;in turning their fire on the capital&#8217;s process-and-power-obsessed political class,&#8221; Obama&#8217;s aides are &#8220;actually indulging in a time-honored Beltway tradition.&#8221; Both Arizona and Colorado &#8220;are&#8230;key to Obama&#8217;s reelection strategy,&#8221; notes The Hill</p>
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		<title>By: buddy larsen</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/richardfernandez/2009/02/11/opening-the-package/#comment-35402</link>
		<dc:creator>buddy larsen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 13:44:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>don&#039;t forget to tell her what you just told us, eggplant (advice from old divorced fool)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>don&#8217;t forget to tell her what you just told us, eggplant (advice from old divorced fool)</p>
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		<title>By: buddy larsen</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/richardfernandez/2009/02/11/opening-the-package/#comment-35392</link>
		<dc:creator>buddy larsen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 10:26:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OldNeocon/299 --thanks! I bleev that&#039;s the one --</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OldNeocon/299 &#8211;thanks! I bleev that&#8217;s the one &#8211;</p>
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		<title>By: marymcl</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/richardfernandez/2009/02/11/opening-the-package/#comment-35248</link>
		<dc:creator>marymcl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 18:09:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Karen - Well, if you don&#039;t go for novels generally I wouldn&#039;t recommend depressing yourself with this one! You might never pick up another - it&#039;s what the critics call a &quot;disturbing&quot; tale. It&#039;s the sort of book that leaves you thinking - What was that?!? But as I said I was impressed with the author&#039;s insight into some of the demons that haunt the female mind. And Bowles was a fine stylist as well.

Hang in there Eggplant - rest and fluids ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Karen &#8211; Well, if you don&#8217;t go for novels generally I wouldn&#8217;t recommend depressing yourself with this one! You might never pick up another &#8211; it&#8217;s what the critics call a &#8220;disturbing&#8221; tale. It&#8217;s the sort of book that leaves you thinking &#8211; What was that?!? But as I said I was impressed with the author&#8217;s insight into some of the demons that haunt the female mind. And Bowles was a fine stylist as well.</p>
<p>Hang in there Eggplant &#8211; rest and fluids <img src='http://pjmedia.com/richardfernandez/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Eggplant</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eggplant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2009 22:27:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>marymcl:

No problem.  Right now, I&#039;m up to my eyeballs with child caring issues.  Two weeks ago, my wife went to visit her elderly mother (lives in South Africa) and I&#039;ve been left to manage the home and children.  It&#039;s definitely a two person job.   A week ago my daughter came down with a snotting/coughing disease (now recovering) and everything is slowly going to hell.  My wife will be back in a week (can&#039;t wait for her to return).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>marymcl:</p>
<p>No problem.  Right now, I&#8217;m up to my eyeballs with child caring issues.  Two weeks ago, my wife went to visit her elderly mother (lives in South Africa) and I&#8217;ve been left to manage the home and children.  It&#8217;s definitely a two person job.   A week ago my daughter came down with a snotting/coughing disease (now recovering) and everything is slowly going to hell.  My wife will be back in a week (can&#8217;t wait for her to return).</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Yvonne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Yvonne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2009 20:57:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>marymcl: &lt;i&gt;What irks me about these posts is the ax-grinding to no purpose.&lt;/i&gt;

Couldn&#039;t agree more.  Virtually all of us here are on the same side in the culture wars; let&#039;s keep it that way.

I generally don&#039;t read novels but if you say &quot;The Sheltering Sky&quot; is worth it, I&#039;ll check it out as a reliable recommendation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>marymcl: <i>What irks me about these posts is the ax-grinding to no purpose.</i></p>
<p>Couldn&#8217;t agree more.  Virtually all of us here are on the same side in the culture wars; let&#8217;s keep it that way.</p>
<p>I generally don&#8217;t read novels but if you say &#8220;The Sheltering Sky&#8221; is worth it, I&#8217;ll check it out as a reliable recommendation.</p>
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		<title>By: marymcl</title>
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		<dc:creator>marymcl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2009 17:55:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oops, eggplant - didn&#039;t mean to put words in your mouth, that should read &quot;slade&#039;s assessment&quot;  - my apologies to all concerned</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oops, eggplant &#8211; didn&#8217;t mean to put words in your mouth, that should read &#8220;slade&#8217;s assessment&#8221;  &#8211; my apologies to all concerned</p>
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		<title>By: marymcl</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/richardfernandez/2009/02/11/opening-the-package/#comment-35089</link>
		<dc:creator>marymcl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2009 17:15:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Karen @294 - &quot;...my initial exasperation of: leave it to a man to think everything’s about power.&quot;

I hear you loud and clear on that one! In the &quot;Crock of Gold&quot;, James Stephens wrote 

&quot;Power is man&#039;s secret, Sex is woman&#039;s secret, and Man is God&#039;s secret&quot;

Feminists got that formula all mixed up, wouldn&#039;t you say? Likewise whiskey may have a knack for interpreting social data but what he doesn&#039;t know about women is a lot. What irks me about these posts is the ax-grinding to no purpose. All it does it rankle and divide to no useful end that I can see. And as you pointed out, where are the men in all this? If I understand him correctly they&#039;ve all been sitting around helplessly like horny baboons for the past thirty years getting nowhere fast and increasingly humorless. And the best answer he has for NahnCee is Nothing? Speaking as a mother and a nurse, I know a tantrum when I see one. ;)

I agree with Eggplant&#039;s assessment that self-reliance is a driving concern. Child-support horror stories aside, this has not been a particularly easy road for women. One thing I&#039;ve observed in young working mothers, the married ones no less than the single, is a simple lack of faith in the idea that men can be trusted to take care of them. They don&#039;t seem happy about it, just resigned. 

(Off track somewhat but have you ever read &quot;The Sheltering Sky&quot; by Paul Bowles? It&#039;s about a wealthy American couple, sexually and emotionally estranged, who try  to save their marriage by slumming around  post-WWII North Africa - frankly the characters aren&#039;t very likable but the author had a remarkable insight into the darker impulses at war within the female mind)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Karen @294 &#8211; &#8220;&#8230;my initial exasperation of: leave it to a man to think everything’s about power.&#8221;</p>
<p>I hear you loud and clear on that one! In the &#8220;Crock of Gold&#8221;, James Stephens wrote </p>
<p>&#8220;Power is man&#8217;s secret, Sex is woman&#8217;s secret, and Man is God&#8217;s secret&#8221;</p>
<p>Feminists got that formula all mixed up, wouldn&#8217;t you say? Likewise whiskey may have a knack for interpreting social data but what he doesn&#8217;t know about women is a lot. What irks me about these posts is the ax-grinding to no purpose. All it does it rankle and divide to no useful end that I can see. And as you pointed out, where are the men in all this? If I understand him correctly they&#8217;ve all been sitting around helplessly like horny baboons for the past thirty years getting nowhere fast and increasingly humorless. And the best answer he has for NahnCee is Nothing? Speaking as a mother and a nurse, I know a tantrum when I see one. <img src='http://pjmedia.com/richardfernandez/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I agree with Eggplant&#8217;s assessment that self-reliance is a driving concern. Child-support horror stories aside, this has not been a particularly easy road for women. One thing I&#8217;ve observed in young working mothers, the married ones no less than the single, is a simple lack of faith in the idea that men can be trusted to take care of them. They don&#8217;t seem happy about it, just resigned. </p>
<p>(Off track somewhat but have you ever read &#8220;The Sheltering Sky&#8221; by Paul Bowles? It&#8217;s about a wealthy American couple, sexually and emotionally estranged, who try  to save their marriage by slumming around  post-WWII North Africa &#8211; frankly the characters aren&#8217;t very likable but the author had a remarkable insight into the darker impulses at war within the female mind)</p>
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		<title>By: OldNeocon</title>
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		<dc:creator>OldNeocon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 23:36:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Buddy @127
How about a nuclear plant the size of a dumpster that will power about 40,000 homes at an initial cost of about $25 million?  See at http://www.gerrycharlottephelps.com/2008/11/mini-nuclear-plants-to-power-40000-homes.html.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Buddy @127<br />
How about a nuclear plant the size of a dumpster that will power about 40,000 homes at an initial cost of about $25 million?  See at <a href="http://www.gerrycharlottephelps.com/2008/11/mini-nuclear-plants-to-power-40000-homes.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.gerrycharlottephelps.com/2008/11/mini-nuclear-plants-to-power-40000-homes.html</a>.</p>
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