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		<title>By: Laura</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2008 09:49:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One such woman faces a fate like Raheleh&#039;s. Delara Darabi faces execution by hanging for a crime she didn&#039;t commit. Having now spent several years in prison, she suffers from severe depression and has tried to take her own life. Her case has reached its final stage as it is now in the hands of Iran&#039;s Chief Judge, Ayatollah Shahroudi. If he does not grant Delara a stay of execution, this girl will die. It is critical that we, as an international community observant to even the most basic human rights, pressure Ayatollah Shahroudi to ultimately let this innocent girl go.
Please visit savedelara.com for information on how you can help save this girl&#039;s life.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One such woman faces a fate like Raheleh&#8217;s. Delara Darabi faces execution by hanging for a crime she didn&#8217;t commit. Having now spent several years in prison, she suffers from severe depression and has tried to take her own life. Her case has reached its final stage as it is now in the hands of Iran&#8217;s Chief Judge, Ayatollah Shahroudi. If he does not grant Delara a stay of execution, this girl will die. It is critical that we, as an international community observant to even the most basic human rights, pressure Ayatollah Shahroudi to ultimately let this innocent girl go.<br />
Please visit savedelara.com for information on how you can help save this girl&#8217;s life.</p>
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		<title>By: greenconsciousness</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/phyllischesler/2008/01/02/rest_in_peace_dear_raheleh_zam/#comment-540</link>
		<dc:creator>greenconsciousness</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2008 05:10:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;However, in the 1970s, great progress was made in this area—all due to feminist activism. Let me recount four seminal cases that made headlines and case law. These stories are all but forgotten today.&quot;

In WI it was the Jennifer Patri Story - received nation-wide publicity - many feminist defense funds and a book written about it, now out of print. &quot;Manslaughter: A True Story of Love Death and Justice in America&quot; by Steven Englund (1983)ISBN 0-385-14589-6
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;However, in the 1970s, great progress was made in this area—all due to feminist activism. Let me recount four seminal cases that made headlines and case law. These stories are all but forgotten today.&#8221;</p>
<p>In WI it was the Jennifer Patri Story &#8211; received nation-wide publicity &#8211; many feminist defense funds and a book written about it, now out of print. &#8220;Manslaughter: A True Story of Love Death and Justice in America&#8221; by Steven Englund (1983)ISBN 0-385-14589-6</p>
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		<title>By: Zuber</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zuber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jan 2008 10:23:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>George Jochnowitz, pleased to read your comments while I would like to submit as following:
The Quranic verse reads as:
4:34 MEN SHALL take full care of women with the bounties which God has bestowed more abundantly on the former than on the latter, and with what they may spend out of their possessions. And the right­eous women are the truly devout ones, who guard the intimacy which God has [ordained to be] guar­ded. And as for those women whose ill-will you have reason to fear, admonish them [first]; then leave them alone in bed; then beat them; and if thereupon they pay you heed, do not seek to harm them. Behold, God is indeed most high, great!

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Prophet Mohammed&#039;s(Peace Be Upon Him) teachings &amp; elaboration on this topic:
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It is evident from many authentic Traditions that the Prophet himself intensely detested the idea of beating one&#039;s wife, and said on more than one occasion, &quot;Could any of you beat his wife as he would beat a slave, and then lie with her in the evening?&quot; (Bukhari and Muslim/Books of Prophet&#039;s  PBUH teachings).
According to another Tradition, he forbade the beating of any woman with the words, &quot;Never beat God&#039;s handmaidens&quot; (Abu Da’ud, Nasa’i, Ibn Majah, Ahmad ibn Hanbal, Ibn Hibban and Hakim, on the authority of Iyas ibn ‘Abd Allah; Ibn Hibban, on the authority of ‘Abd Allah ibn ‘Abbas; and Bayhaqi, on the authority of Umm Kulthum).
When the above Qur’an-verse authorizing the beating of a refractory wife was revealed, the Prophet is reported to have said: &quot;I wanted one thing, but God has willed another thing - and what God has willed must be best&quot; (see Manar V, 74).
With all this, he stipulated in his sermon on the occasion of the Farewell Pilgrimage, shortly before his death, that beating should be resorted to only if the wife &quot;has become guilty, in an obvious manner, of immoral conduct&quot;, and that it should be done &quot;in such a way as not to cause pain (ghayr mubarrih)&quot;; authentic Traditions to this effect are found in Muslim, Tirmidhi, Abu Da&#039;ud, Nasa&#039;i and Ibn Majah. On the basis of these Traditions, all the authorities stress that this &quot;beating&quot;, if resorted to at all, should be more or less symbolic - &quot;with a toothbrush, or some such thing&quot; (Tabari, quoting the views of scholars of the earliest times), or even &quot;with a folded handkerchief&quot; (Razi);
Some of the greatest Muslim scholars (e.g., Ash-Shafi’i) are of the opinion that it is just barely permissible, and should preferably be avoided: and they justify this opinion by the Prophet&#039;s personal feelings with regard to this problem.(Quran Ref: 4:34 )
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As you will note the responsibility of taking care of the woman lies on the shoulders of the man, which means more than just being a bread winner.
Its very sad to learn the fate of Raheleh Zamani and the way her painful life ended, there is no justification for such actions in the light of Islamic Teachings &amp; the revelation of Quran.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>George Jochnowitz, pleased to read your comments while I would like to submit as following:<br />
The Quranic verse reads as:<br />
4:34 MEN SHALL take full care of women with the bounties which God has bestowed more abundantly on the former than on the latter, and with what they may spend out of their possessions. And the right­eous women are the truly devout ones, who guard the intimacy which God has [ordained to be] guar­ded. And as for those women whose ill-will you have reason to fear, admonish them [first]; then leave them alone in bed; then beat them; and if thereupon they pay you heed, do not seek to harm them. Behold, God is indeed most high, great!</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<br />
Prophet Mohammed&#8217;s(Peace Be Upon Him) teachings &amp; elaboration on this topic:<br />
&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<br />
It is evident from many authentic Traditions that the Prophet himself intensely detested the idea of beating one&#8217;s wife, and said on more than one occasion, &#8220;Could any of you beat his wife as he would beat a slave, and then lie with her in the evening?&#8221; (Bukhari and Muslim/Books of Prophet&#8217;s  PBUH teachings).<br />
According to another Tradition, he forbade the beating of any woman with the words, &#8220;Never beat God&#8217;s handmaidens&#8221; (Abu Da’ud, Nasa’i, Ibn Majah, Ahmad ibn Hanbal, Ibn Hibban and Hakim, on the authority of Iyas ibn ‘Abd Allah; Ibn Hibban, on the authority of ‘Abd Allah ibn ‘Abbas; and Bayhaqi, on the authority of Umm Kulthum).<br />
When the above Qur’an-verse authorizing the beating of a refractory wife was revealed, the Prophet is reported to have said: &#8220;I wanted one thing, but God has willed another thing &#8211; and what God has willed must be best&#8221; (see Manar V, 74).<br />
With all this, he stipulated in his sermon on the occasion of the Farewell Pilgrimage, shortly before his death, that beating should be resorted to only if the wife &#8220;has become guilty, in an obvious manner, of immoral conduct&#8221;, and that it should be done &#8220;in such a way as not to cause pain (ghayr mubarrih)&#8221;; authentic Traditions to this effect are found in Muslim, Tirmidhi, Abu Da&#8217;ud, Nasa&#8217;i and Ibn Majah. On the basis of these Traditions, all the authorities stress that this &#8220;beating&#8221;, if resorted to at all, should be more or less symbolic &#8211; &#8220;with a toothbrush, or some such thing&#8221; (Tabari, quoting the views of scholars of the earliest times), or even &#8220;with a folded handkerchief&#8221; (Razi);<br />
Some of the greatest Muslim scholars (e.g., Ash-Shafi’i) are of the opinion that it is just barely permissible, and should preferably be avoided: and they justify this opinion by the Prophet&#8217;s personal feelings with regard to this problem.(Quran Ref: 4:34 )<br />
&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<br />
As you will note the responsibility of taking care of the woman lies on the shoulders of the man, which means more than just being a bread winner.<br />
Its very sad to learn the fate of Raheleh Zamani and the way her painful life ended, there is no justification for such actions in the light of Islamic Teachings &amp; the revelation of Quran.</p>
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		<title>By: Eilish</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eilish</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jan 2008 07:53:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The heart just bleeds for this young woman and all those like her out there. As a mother, I hope someone, someday has the courage to tell her children the truth about their mother. If there was a daughter, the abuse would have easily spread to her as well. I pray some good will come out of this tragedy.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The heart just bleeds for this young woman and all those like her out there. As a mother, I hope someone, someday has the courage to tell her children the truth about their mother. If there was a daughter, the abuse would have easily spread to her as well. I pray some good will come out of this tragedy.</p>
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		<title>By: JohnrRyan</title>
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		<dc:creator>JohnrRyan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 05:40:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are currently about 2000 women jailed in the USA for killing their husbands
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are currently about 2000 women jailed in the USA for killing their husbands</p>
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		<title>By: George Jochnowitz</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/phyllischesler/2008/01/02/rest_in_peace_dear_raheleh_zam/#comment-536</link>
		<dc:creator>George Jochnowitz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 02:44:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>MEMRI (Middle East Media Research Institute) Report # 27 discusses whether the Koran, in verse 4:34, permits wife beating.  The verse, on the surface, seems to do so, although many scholars say it should be interpreted differently.

Be that as it may, I know of no other religion that explicitly mentions wife beating and seems to tolerate it.  Domestic violence may be found anywhere.  Nowadays, however, it is taboo everywhere except in the Islamic world.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>MEMRI (Middle East Media Research Institute) Report # 27 discusses whether the Koran, in verse 4:34, permits wife beating.  The verse, on the surface, seems to do so, although many scholars say it should be interpreted differently.</p>
<p>Be that as it may, I know of no other religion that explicitly mentions wife beating and seems to tolerate it.  Domestic violence may be found anywhere.  Nowadays, however, it is taboo everywhere except in the Islamic world.</p>
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		<title>By: allahakchew</title>
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		<dc:creator>allahakchew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 01:54:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am so deeply saddened...may she rest in peace.
No words can express my anger about this.
Human Rights abuses need to stop..a wonderful young life was taken away for nothing...
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so deeply saddened&#8230;may she rest in peace.<br />
No words can express my anger about this.<br />
Human Rights abuses need to stop..a wonderful young life was taken away for nothing&#8230;</p>
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