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How Your Child’s Rebellion Mirrors Your Own

You wish they trusted you. God knows how you feel.

by
Walter Hudson

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June 30, 2013 - 1:00 pm
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The primary skill which we must engender in our children is the capacity for reason, the ability to make rational decisions which serve their best interest. However, even as reason manifests, its exercise absent knowledge and experience often produces poor outcomes. No doubt, that proves to be the tragedy of teenage years, an emerging capacity for reason eager to self-determine without much knowledge to determine with.

As adults, we find ourselves in a similar position relative to God. Certainly, I may confess to any number of incidents where I had to be figuratively wrestled to the ground and given medicine against my will. In retrospect, I have come to recognize little difference in the relationship between my son and I in that regard and my inverse relationship with God. In either case, there exists a significant disparity in knowledge. I know better than my son the benefits of his taking antibiotics to address a double-ear infection. God knows better than I the benefits of following his will for my life.

My son imagines a preferable outcome from skipping his dosage, as I have often imagined a preferable outcome from relying upon my own judgment. If my son had the benefit of my knowledge, he might arrive at better decisions. So might I if I shared in God’s omniscience. Alas, just as I cannot upload my knowledge to my son and must teach it to him over time, God’s design requires a progressing relationship to benefit fully from his counsel.

The analogy works to a point. A key difference between the relationship of father to son and that of God to creation is the eternal nature of God. My son will eventually match my capacity, and perhaps even surpass it. I will never match God’s. Therefore, a point will never arrive beyond which I will not require His custody. He will always know more and better. We properly understand humility as the acknowledgement of that fact, not a sanctimonious self-flagellation, but an accurate comparison of our capacity to His.

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Walter Hudson advocates for individual rights, serving on the boards of the Republican Liberty Caucus of Minnesota, Minnesota Majority and the Minority Liberty Alliance. He maintains a blog and daily podcast entitled Fightin Words and co-hosts the weekly podcast Liberty Tree Radio. He also contributes to True North, a hub of conservative Minnesotan commentary, and regularly appears on the Twin Cities News Talk Weekend Roundtable on KTCN AM 1130. Follow his work via Twitter, Facebook, and YouTube.

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I was very fortunate. My daughter has had ear problems since she was 3 months old (shes almost 17). Thankfully, she was easy to dose.
We are supposed to keep her ears dry so one time after swimming, we tried the drops that dry up the water in the ear canal. She fell to the floor screaming in such agony I can still hear it & cringe. Its made with alcohol & we then discovered she had a perforated ear drum.
Hopefully your son will get more used to it as he gets older.
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Well said, sir! Good reminder.
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If there is a next time, it's much easier to give your son the ear drops while he is asleep.

41 weeks ago
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Yeah, you'd think so, wouldn't you. Tried it. Didn't pan out.
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It might depend on how deeply they sleep and in what position. I can't even go into my son's room when he's asleep because the odds are that I'll wake him up.
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I could have told her that! :D When an ear is that inflamed, just putting the drops produces a wildly awake, screaming child.

Assuming they happen to be in a convenient position to administer the drops, of course.
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