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What Father Would Permit His Young Daughter to Wear a Bikini?

Elizabeth Hurley now offering a line of skimpy swimwear for those under 8.

by
Dave Swindle

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September 19, 2012 - 11:07 am
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My wife and I don’t have children yet. We’re still on the training wheels (dog ownership) with Maura, our 3-year-old Siberian Husky puppy. We generally talk about having kids “10 or 15 years down the line,” long after she’s finished graduate school and we’re both at secure levels in our careers.

But the switch has flicked over all the way. While for years I wavered on “Oh, well maybe some day I’ll be a dad,” now it’s “Yes, I will need to be a father some day.” (Some of my PJ colleagues and regular writers I work with who are recent dads have no doubt been influences, too.)

So nowadays, in preparation for someday being a dad, with every little girl I see I make a conscious point to think “this is another man’s daughter.” And then: “Whatever she’s doing is his responsibility. Her growing up protected into a strong young woman is his responsibility. She is the single most important thing he should be dedicating his life to now.”

Vesta:

What do you guys think? Is it a problem or no big deal?

These swimsuits are made and manufactured by people who do not understand human evil. They are purchased by parents who do not understand human evil. And the children who grow up wearing them will therefore not come to understand human evil until after they’re victimized by it first hand.

But let me spell it out for those who want to deny it: when a woman wears a skimpy swimsuit, she is sending off the signal to every man and boy that she is a self-proclaimed slut and the most interesting thing about her is her body. If a woman didn’t want a man to look at her breasts, if she did not want to use them to attract the kind of men who have no self-control, she would not flash them around.

Perhaps here’s how I’d lay it out to my not-yet-existing daughter someday: Sweetheart, the more honey one pours out, the more flies you will attract. Now’s the time for you to wear girl swimsuits. When you’re a woman, you and your mother can decide if you want to wear these swimsuits some women wear. If you do — and even if you don’t — then we’re going to want to make sure that you know how to use your stinger.

This used to be common sense — dress like a tramp and men will treat you like one — but saying this makes me “the American Taliban” or the next coming of Puritanism or something. So be it.

Update: Another post from me with more on the debate about this subject:

The Difference Between Sexy Bikinis and Slutty Thongs — And Why Little Girls Should Wear Neither

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David Swindle is the associate editor of PJ Media. He writes and edits articles and blog posts on politics, news, culture, religion, and entertainment. He edits the PJ Lifestyle section and the PJ columnists. Contact him at DaveSwindlePJM @ Gmail.com and follow him on Twitter @DaveSwindle. He has worked full-time as a writer, editor, blogger, and New Media troublemaker since 2009, at PJ Media since 2011. He graduated with a degree in English (creative writing emphasis) and political science from Ball State University in 2006. Previously he's also worked as a freelance writer for The Indianapolis Star and the film critic for WTHR.com. He lives in Los Angeles with his wife and their Siberian Husky puppy Maura.
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