October 19, 2012
DREAMING OF A WIDER WORLD.
These cartoon females supposedly inspire the female dream to have it all. The Little Mermaid’s song begins with the observation that she pretty much looks like “the girl who has everything.” But she wants more, more, more. (Song cue.)
But men? Our culture doesn’t want you saying such things anymore. There was a time when Marlon Brando and James Dean were icons, and they seemed to be all about rejection of this humdrum life in your sad little town. But they have been swallowed up into the past. In the American pop culture of today, the admirable man cannot seriously express such longings and expect love and admiration. It can only be a joke, comic dissonance with the reality of the good man’s life, scrambling eggs at the kitchen table with his adorable little girl (who is, herself, permitted to internalize the female dream of getting out of this dreary, constricting place to get what she deserves — the bigger, brighter, better life).
And yet there’s supposed to be a war on women.