21ST CENTURY RELATIONSHIPS: “Roller Derby Has Made me Too Masculine for Men.” One of my UT Law colleagues did roller derby. She was tough, but not masculine.

Meanwhile, my advice is to compete against men. I had a research assistant who did SCA broadsword competition and was really formidable. She came up against a guy who gave her such a buffet that it turned her helmet around backward and knocked her cold. They were married a year later.