Obsidian at Just Four Guys blog: “Why Should Black Men Get Married?”:
WHY, should a Brotha put a ring on it, in our time, today, in 2014? What are the incentives for him doing so? What benefits accrue to him for doing so – first and foremost legally, and secondarily socially, that he could NOT get remaining unmarried? What costs does he incur in doing so, that remaining unmarried would protect him from?