Manning Up or Wimping Out: Men Don’t Exist to Serve Women’s Desires
This entire thread is bitter projection. Bitter men whining that women have figured them out and are beating them at their own game. FYI I have NEVER mooched off anyone. The price was too high IMNSHO . I refused to sell out for a false sense of security and validation as a human being. I always knew who I was and knew marriage would not make me anything other than bored and limited.
You are probably somewhat right that I don’t understand how women think. Because I do nto think like most of them and have nothing but contempt for how they seem to think and their compulsion to get married. But really it’s not so much what they honestly want so much as social conditioning .
Maybe there needs to be a website telling women not to get married. I have a website , I don’t think women should get married ….maybe this is a marriage I could benefit from ? Thanks for the idea.
Whoever said Eve blamed Adam the reverse is actually true. Adam blamed Eve then tried to blame God for giving him the woman to begin with. It is the original sin of MEN ( male) to shift blame. Eve was deceived. Adam blatently disobeyed. Then tried to shift blame onto Eve . What a loser .
For whoever said ” Let us be men ” …. no one is stopping you. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent . No one can stop you from being a man if that is what you are. You either are or you are not. There is no try . I think Yoda said that . Do or do not .
Lastly , women had few options but to marry until very recently . You have our forefathers to thank for a system that was doomed to blow up in your face. Don’t blame us . We didn’t make the rules . We were not allowed a voice . If you are feeling oppressed then you should follow our example and break the chains. But mostly what I see here is men who want things to go back to the way they were when women NEEDED a husband.It seems as if some of the men here want to make women dependant on them again so they have th eupper hand again . That’s sad to me. It is as if you think you have nothing to offer us but material possessions.And that is how women came to see you as a paycheck. Because that is what you dangle in front of us . Financial security. When we can support ourselves those threats are empty and make us act spitefully towards you. And if you act like a paycheck and we treat you like a paycheck who do you really have to blame for that ?
