Manning Up or Wimping Out: Men Don’t Exist to Serve Women’s Desires
The problem here is, YOU have found something decent, and I can even list things you are doing correctly (Confirming the frame, for instance – which both makes you the dominant partner, AND forces her to either confront you directly, or know that she’s a weasel if she goes behind your back, and will also show up during that conversation in subtle disrespect.)
However, some of us have learned the hard way, or been tricked in some cases, into bad deals which we cannot get out of, even IF we now do the “right” things.
In my case, it is amplified by being attractive, gaming her when I feel like and ignoring her when I feel like, but still being beta in some ways (providing, for instance.)
But if I decide not to provide? MY name is still on everything, so she really has no incentive to be more than a beast (and she shows it more all the time.)
The objective now is to make such things as Game unnecessary, to take what men want WITHOUT giving up what the “wymmynz” want, and let them stew in their own shit. Nothing nasty – just protecting young men from their hormones and short-sighted judgement.
