I am a Christian man who has never married.
I see it is so far gone in the US at this point that I as a man do not feel there is anything left to work with in the American society. Yet, having the profoundly strong, deep rooted natural desire to be with a partner, I am left in a quandary wondering how to get through this life where marriage and appropriate behaviors and so on have been utterly discarded, destroyed, and lost for 30 years. Women no longer have any respect or reverence whatsoever for men, and marriage has been virtually abolished at this point, and more than half the adults in society had no parenting or positive influences to speak of themselves anyway.
The most wild thing for me is that I did not even fully know this for what it is until within the past year. I had this false notion that you could appraoch a courtship/relationship with good intentons and marriage would simply be assumed. I learned the hard way what a delusion that was. It is so discouraging. It is like we have a choice between the ongoing burning torment of celibacy, or on the other side there is always hell waiting for us to step into it, but a loving wife who treats us with some kind of sanity and respect… good luck finding that, guys (much less keeping it if you do find it – they can walk on you and just go find a job and take the kids any time they please!) God help this fallen and disintgrated society. God save us.
