Feminism in Western World ruin real female that should be. It is a shame. I am a woman from overseas (East) it is so sad to see what happen in Western World. I was shock when I heard about alimony in USA, until I experience to myself that I realized that no equality and fairness for men and women in US. Here is my story :
My husband’s Ex award alimony with child support for 2 boys (16, 12) for 55000 /year. She get half of his retirement. She works as a school consultant with Master Degree earn decent income. My husband pay for children’ insurance, medical bill, and collage fund. She is still telling my stepsons that she doesn’t have money. I though she was a decent lady because she works as School consultant for kids, but I was wrong. She is getting bitter and more greedy. She has a boyfriend who they spend time together (but they don’t live together ) for 4 years because she doesn’t want to lose her alimony. She always take nice trips, eat out in the nice restaurant with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend earn even less what my husband pay her alimony. When the boys want to go somewhere else for school break, or eat out she always say she can’t afford it. We are so mad what she did to the boys.
My husband works hard to pay all this shit to this bitch. I don’t think it is fair and US must change. My husband has to pay alimony 15 years more. We would like to retire and move out from US, but we stuck here because of alimony (not child support). He married her for 13 years and he has to pay here more than 20 years (in total). Is it fair? He doesn’t want to see his 2 sons will go thru what he suffers from divorce and alimony system.
I beg to everyone who involve law & order in US, please consider about fairness of divorce. It must change for the new generation.
