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Ask Dr. Helen: Should Single Men Be ‘Bagged and Tagged?’

July 14, 2008 - 1:01 am - by Helen Smith
Lea
2008-07-15 05:17:02

I’ve got to say that I’m pretty supprised by the number of comments that amount to “women are bad.”

I’m not. Every time one of these topics starts on this site I feel like I’ve wondered into the he-man woman haters club.

Might I kindly suggest that the men who have all these problems with gold digging, bitchy women are quite possibly just making poor choices and should stop lambasting all women because they’ve met some bad ones? Would you guys like it if women ran around accusing all men of being just like their nasty ex-boyfriend/husband? You don’t like it, I’m sure. Well, women don’t like it either.

Men make bad choices and then they are highly suspicious of the other women in their lives and probably drive off many of the good ones with their attitude. I went out with a guy once who had some idiotic door test, that quite frankly made no sense in an electronic age, with which he judged whether a woman was kind or something. Meanwhile, I’m sure he thought he was a prince, but he was terribly inconsiderate and selfish. I”m not saying there aren’t women like that out there, but there are men out there who are not any better and it’s up to you (or me or whoever) to be able to distinguish the good from the bad.