WidowedGuy makes a very good point re how men are treated in the media. The stereotypes are ridiculous. And because most TV shows are targeted to women (statistically, women are profoundly more responsible for TV viewership than are men), the sensibilities, tastes and prejudices of women are catered to by TV writers. I wonder how much women are really sold on what passes for “typical male behavior” that is shown on most channels, particularly Lifetime (Television for Idiots!).
I’m not so sold on “Jim’s” fear of women. I don’t suspect his fear issues are directed at women. It’s more likely a case of what lies in store for him if he makes a relationship mistake. I would very much welcome the chance to enjoy a shared life with a trusted friend, life partner or whatever. But, having seen several friends and relatives endure horrific divorces that left nothing in their wake but misery and two rich lawyers, the consequences of making a bad decision weighs heavily on my mind as well.
My advice would be for him to pay close attention to his social circle, decide what kind of people and values he wants in his life and to tailor his associations accordingly.
