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Ask Dr. Helen: Can a Man Be Raped by a Woman?

June 30, 2008 - 12:06 am - by Helen Smith
LSBeene
2008-07-03 11:44:25

The mean spirited comments of some here are shameful in their ignorance and cruelty.

Men often get erect while sleeping, but that is not consent.

Some female rape victims become wet, and some even orgasm. Now, before anyone flogs me for that comment realize that police officers who speicalize in rape cases have reported this. Does this mean the women who became “aroused” were changing their minds or that they were consenting?

NO! Their BODIES were reacting to stimuli and not in synch with their minds. That is my point.

That Mike was erect does not mean consent was given. And his story is very credible. This woman wanted sex and she used the power of violence by proxy (the threat of police involvement and prison) to get what she wanted.

Men are, generally, stronger, but women know that and often use violence by proxy to acheive the same level of threat.

Any seen girls in junior or senior high who fling vile accusations at one another because of some snitty argument? Why is it so different?

Also, anyone who has trouble believing women rape should see the ground breaking movie about lesbian rape called:
“She stole my voice”

It’s about lesbians who have been raped by other women and how they are finally speaking up.

I hope I have added to the discussion.

Steven