Christoph
2010-04-06 13:44:14

A second man?

Or a different one?

On a serious note*, how long have you two been together? Most people’s mammals’ (okay also birds’) sexual attraction for their partner diminishes with time as their sex hormonal levels subside, but mating with a new partner increases sex hormonal levels and desire especially for the new partner.

I don’t have a cure for that fact of biology.

I might suggest though that relationships would be better of they were based more on love and less on copulatory exclusivity… since the latter is often self-defeating for both partners anyhow.

 
* another one