Lynn,
From your posting, you say you have a lot of positive qualities. Good for you. Regardless of the qualities you have, any man who would give you control over his wealth, assuming he has some, is gambling. Your great qualities notwithstanding. Men who marry a woman who can divorce them and take half of their assets if she gets ‘bored’ deserve what happens to them.
Your best chance of ‘finding love’ is to pursue a poor man who will marry for love because he has little else to offer. That man will give you a chance because there’s no risk for him. Other men would have to be insane to put what wealth they’ve accumulated into your hands via a divorce court should your moods change once you walk down the aisle.
We’ll see if you’re really into it ‘for love’.
