ok! you men who have decided to stay away from marriage or ‘relationships’ : all I can say is that there are some women out there who do appreciate a man standing up for himself and making his boundaries clear… what he wants from a relationship … how much time together or not … how much sex and in what form it takes… A man strong enough to be totally honest about his position, his wants, his expectations, his needs, his beliefs. Its time to be strong, unafraid not bitter. Men and women can listen to one another but retain their differences, have a life together but not smother each other. Surely we are here to keep each other on our toes as well as sooth each others souls. Its not very exciting otherwise.
There are some women out there, like myself, who really love men and sex and appreciate a man who stands up for himself… these are the men we respect and ultimately adore: and want to have lots of passionate deep sex with. I often remember my father, who was a quiet gentle man, never ever let my mother lecture or walk all over him. If she crossed the line he would just stand still, feet firmly planted on the ground and give her a firm straight look and say No. She would always back off. She loved and respected him always. What I hate to see is when a man calls his spouse/partner ‘the boss’. Makes me feel sick to the stomach.
