I personally have no problem with Polygamy. It has been around since the biginning of recorded History. Our modern way of “dating” here in the USA is a recent phenomenon unheard of befoe the 1940′s and 1950′s. What’s the differnce of a 15 or 16 year old girl losing her virginity to a 40 year old man who is already married? Verses the moral dilemma we have here in the United States and other western Countries. Where the average teenage girl wiil have already lost her virginity by age 16. Statistics say as many as 30% of 15 yr. old girls have lost there virginity. And by 17 years of age 75% will no longer still have their “Cherry”. And we all know by the time the 18 year old girls graduate from public high school there is’nt hardly one to be found who can proudly say she is still a virgin, saving herself for her wedding night. You might be able to find a strong % of girls who are in Parochial or Christian Schools who can make that claim. But not in Public Government Schools.
I have put much thought into this. Is a lovestruck 16 year old girl better off making that decision of whom she will have sex with? Or is she better off having her parents decide whom she will marry and make quite sure she is still a virgin on her wedding night? It seems to me that it is obvious that every year that passes after a teen girls 15th birthday it is much more difficult for the parents to have any influence on her decisions. Especially when it comes to sex. Biologically her body is telling her once a month to have sex and get pregnant and have a baby. Therefor get married. But society is telling her the opposite. Society is telling her too be promiscuous. Be independent, free, get educated. Do anything you want. It’s all about you. Postpone having children and getting married. They tell her she can always get married in her mid to late 30′s if at all. And that would only be to have a child before it is too late. Because her biological clock is ticking at the eleventh hour by this time. Now she realizes that her life was all for a lie. What “they” told her was a lie. She desperately wants what she avoided since she was a teen.All throughout her teens and 20′s her most prime years for child bearing and reproduction she ignored this.
So I think we need to clean up our side of the street before telling others to clean uo their side. Our modern and progressive ways are far from perfect. As a matter of fact our ways are much worse for the girl. Who can take care of her and the child if she get’s pregnant better? The 40 year old married man and his 38 year old wife? Or the 16 year old boy who is still in high school?
