Johnmc
“Huh?? So if some guy who has been reverent and faithful has been sleazed by a unfaithful partner its still half their fault?”
YES! He choose a woman that was like this for some reason…and there were signs before it happened, he just didn’t see them (by choice or not) His friends probably saw it a mile away!
But ditto for women who marry physically abusive men. Theres no excuse to put up with abuse now – we have television/radio/the law to remind us that isn’t normal. And unless courtship was extremely brief, there were signs!
My point is, too many people say, “it wasn’t my fault, it was all my ex-spouse” without stopping to think about why they were drawn to the person in a first place.
As long as you ignore that part of you that is responsible, you’ll never be able to “find a good one”.
