Right Brain
2008-05-15 17:32:20
When I began dating again after my divorce most of the women I met were also divorced and starting over. I learned to, at some point, ask “What happened to your marriage?” Typically their answer would be a pro forma and whole-cloth blaming: “he did this, he did that, he lost a job, he was lazy…” Rarely did women take any responsibility at all, most were innocent bystanders at best, and cowed victims at worse. The correct answer ladies is “It didn’t work out, we tried.” Any other answer indicates that you haven’t a clue why you are divorced.
