I don’t think dating someone who’s divorced is such a big deal. The big deal is if there are kids. Of course, I’m divorced without any kids. Sometimes it just doesn’t work out. I suppose that if I had just lived with my ex-wife and never married I wouldn’t have to explain from time to time why I’m divorced, but on the whole it hasn’t been a detriment to me.
I wouldn’t have any problems dating a divorced woman. I’d just assume it didn’t work out, like my situation.
On the other hand, I would never date a woman with kids. Maybe as I get older, I’d be willing to change that rule, as long as the kids were conceived during a marriage. But I’d never date a woman who has never married and has kids, because I won’t be the next victim. And I’d never put myself in a position to be financially responsible for someone else’s kids.
